Fake it ’til you make it

Someone once told me that, however bad you're feeling, simply smiling will make you feel happier. It’s to do with the physical action of moving your face muscles triggering neural pathways involved in emotion. Or something. I don't know whether it’s scientifically proven, anecdotal, or just bullshit. Anyway, I wonder if the same can be … Continue reading Fake it ’til you make it

Not just a mum…

This post was written for the #SEND30daychallenge, day 9: ‘Not just a mum.’ I’m one of the (few) parents who actually don’t mind being called ‘mum’ by professionals. Yes, I do have a name, but in the context of Benjamin’s health, education or care I see being called ‘mum’ as an affirmation of status. I … Continue reading Not just a mum…

A natural mother

I’ve never seen myself as a natural mother. I’m impatient, selfish, particular, ambitious. While I’m not exactly sure what a ‘natural mother’ should be, I’m pretty certain it’s none of those things. Yet for nearly four years I have been, without a break, either pregnant or breastfeeding. Both came (surprisingly) easily, naturally, without much effort, … Continue reading A natural mother