Overwhelmed

A few days before Christmas, I went as a parent helper with my daughter’s class to a carol service: shepherding seven-year-olds along frosty pavements, trying to keep their wiggly crocodile in line, shushing them as they waited excitedly in the pews. To be honest, it was the last thing I wanted to do when I … Continue reading Overwhelmed

Cleaning up shit

At 4am this morning I was cleaning up shit. Because that's my job. (Except, as a carer it's a job I'm expected to to do for nothing. Nothing being very slightly less than the insulting carers' allowance that those who can't work alongside caring get. Which is slightly less again than the pitiful minimum wage … Continue reading Cleaning up shit

Postcode Lottery

I’ve always thought of myself as fortunate. Opportunities have landed in my path. My parents bought a house in the catchment area for a good school. My teachers saw to it that I got into a good university. That good education got me a job that I love. I have three beautiful children. My husband … Continue reading Postcode Lottery

Five things I’d change

This post was written for the #SEND30daychallenge, day 7: ‘Five things you’d change.’ We are so fortunate to live in Scotland, where there are really very few things that need to be changed so that Benjamin, and children like him, can live a safe, healthy, and happy life for as long as their biology and … Continue reading Five things I’d change

As the dust settles

In case you haven’t heard, we had a general election here last week. The result was rather unexpected and, for many people, disappointing, angering or downright frightening. The way I voted is not important (I don’t mean because there were only two parties that could have won in my seat and I voted for neither … Continue reading As the dust settles

Ambition

They say what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger … or at least turns you into your mother. After growing up in a highly politicised family I thought I’d finally escaped all that campaigning nonsense. However, if having kids makes us think and care more deeply about the world they are growing up in, and … Continue reading Ambition