What a difference a drug makes

I’ve often joked that Benjamin is my easiest child. At least, alongside a five-year-old who will burst into tears if you suggest she watches CBeebies instead of Youtube (or, God forbid, actually turn the TV off), and a one-year-old who will literally climb the furniture to get at anything she shouldn’t have. He doesn’t answer … Continue reading What a difference a drug makes

Therapy for two

To be honest, I’m terrible at making time to do therapy with Benjamin. A quick stretch while I’m changing his nappy. A couple of rolls when we’re getting dressed in the morning. Plonk him in his chair facing in a slightly different direction each day, give him some toys to look at and that’s about … Continue reading Therapy for two

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

(Charles Dickens; A Tale of Two Cities) The experiences of our little household pale into insignificance against the backdrop of political turmoil, cultural change, and sad losses amongst our beloved SWAN community, that characterised so much of 2016. Nonetheless, we had our own ups and downs… Our year started on a knife edge as we … Continue reading It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

Being Benjamin’s mum

I don’t know why I still subscribe to them. Those weekly emails from the parenting websites listing the milestones my children ‘should’ be reaching at three weeks, three months, three years. It’s weaning time! … How to get your toddler to sleep … Starting school … and, this week, 50 reasons why it’s fun to … Continue reading Being Benjamin’s mum

What Zika virus means to me

“Zika virus could be bigger global health threat than Ebola” … “WHO holds emergency meeting” … “Global health emergency” … “Obama has a new plan to fight Zika,” scream the headlines. There’s something fascinating about an emerging tropical disease isn’t there? No matter how much sympathy we feel for people caught up in the Ebola … Continue reading What Zika virus means to me

Gambling

I haven’t blogged for several weeks. I couldn’t. My mind and body have been consumed with something that I – and my family – weren’t yet ready to share. We have decided to try for another baby. Some might say this was a brave decision. I’m sure others would call it reckless, selfish, ... crazy. … Continue reading Gambling

Highs and lows of a feeding tube

It’s been a few weeks now since Benjamin got his mic-key button fitted. The operation went smoothly and we were home in a couple of days. Beforehand, I asked “will this give me my happy little boy back?” With all the research on earth we weren’t going to know the answer to that question without … Continue reading Highs and lows of a feeding tube