Not just a mum…

This post was written for the #SEND30daychallenge, day 9: ‘Not just a mum.’

I’m one of the (few) parents who actually don’t mind being called ‘mum’ by professionals. Yes, I do have a name, but in the context of Benjamin’s health, education or care I see being called ‘mum’ as an affirmation of status. I am his mum: the one who knows him better than anyone else; the one who loves him more than anyone else; the one who will stop at nothing to get what he needs and deserves. I’m not ashamed to be mum; I’m proud of it.

In fact, I was more shocked the other day when we had some men doing work on the house. One of them said to another (he didn’t know I could hear), ‘Is the woman there? We need to check something with her.’ Woman? I’d never thought of myself as a woman. I’m not old enough, not mature enough, not experienced enough to be a woman.

Anyway, here are a few of the other things I am, when I’m not being just a mum. Woman or not, no wonder I’m tired!

  1. Wife
  2. Daughter
  3. Granddaughter
  4. Sistergirl-2501089_1920
  5. Cousin
  6. Niece
  7. Aunt
  8. God daughter
  9. Friend
  10. Lover
  11. Employee
  12. Colleague
  13. Botanist
  14. Scientist
  15. Researcher
  16. Photographer
  17. Writeralphabet-2518264_1920
  18. Blogger
  19. Speaker
  20. Teacher
  21. Student
  22. Campaigner
  23. Benefit claimant
  24. Taxpayer
  25. Lender
  26. Borrower
  27. Christian
  28. Parishioner
  29. Voter
  30. Feminist
  31. Environmentalist
  32. European
  33. Human being
  34. Ape
  35. Animal
  36. Gardenerlawnmower-384589_1920
  37. Cleaner
  38. Cook
  39. Housemaid
  40. Laundrywoman
  41. Handywoman
  42. Hairdresser
  43. PA
  44. Accountant
  45. Secretary
  46. Tea lady
  47. Nurserubber-duck-1404369_1280
  48. Carer
  49. Doctor
  50. Pharmacist
  51. Physio
  52. Therapist
  53. Dietician
  54. Chauffeur
  55. Ambulance driver
  56. Advocate
  57. Cheerleader
  58. Interior designer
  59. Needlewoman
  60. Fixer
  61. Architect
  62. Challenger
  63. Defender
  64. Warrior
  65. Worrier
  66. Spender
  67. Saver
  68. Home-owner
  69. Guinea-pig-keeper
  70. Recycler
  71. Composter
  72. Breastfeeder
  73. Real nappy user
  74. Reader
  75. Viewer
  76. Listener
  77. Shoulder to cry on
  78. Decision maker
  79. Stake holder
  80. Pessimist
  81. Optimist
  82. Introvert
  83. Snob
  84. Slob
  85. Pedant
  86. Nag
  87. Sleeper
  88. Dreamer
  89. Hippy
  90. Sun worshipper
  91. Puddle jumper
  92. Channel surfer
  93. Dancer
  94. Hugger
  95. Kisser
  96. Giver
  97. Receiver
  98. Peacemaker
  99. But most of all I am mum…
  100. … and I’m a very lucky woman.

What would you add?

#send30daychallenge

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3 thoughts on “Not just a mum…

  1. A friend to be proud of
    Someone who makes you think
    A raconteur
    & possibly a koala? (If the photo is to be believed…)

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